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 Dear Beluga Best Friend, I am graduating from college soon and I am very nervous! How can I  decide what to do with the rest of my life??? 
Congrats, friend! Even though you’re probably feeling a lot of pressure to sort out your next step, I have good news: you don’t have to decide what to do with your life in a big rush. You know what you’re probably not doing right now? Whatever you thought   you’d grow up to do when you were a kid. And ten years from today, you’ll likely be in another place you couldn’t have predicted.
Life   is fickle like that. Get comfortable with change. Make friends with the unknown. Try new things, especially things that are scary to you! Experiment! I encourage life-experimentation at any age, because one of the big secrets nobody tells you is that you’ll probably never feel grown up. There’s no point where you go, Finally! I’m an adult now, and my shit is totally together and I know exactly what I’m doing! 
I realize this is probably kind of depressing to a person in their twenties, but it’s actually a good thing. It means we always have new places to go. It means the decisions we make right now, no matter our stage of life, don’t necessarily define the rest of our existence. Growing up is a process and not a destination. Don’t settle, and never stop learning new stuff.
Love, Your Beluga Best Friend
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snappletree asked:

Dear Beluga Best Friend,

I am graduating from college soon and I am very nervous! How can I decide what to do with the rest of my life???

Congrats, friend! Even though you’re probably feeling a lot of pressure to sort out your next step, I have good news: you don’t have to decide what to do with your life in a big rush. You know what you’re probably not doing right now? Whatever you thought you’d grow up to do when you were a kid. And ten years from today, you’ll likely be in another place you couldn’t have predicted.

Life is fickle like that. Get comfortable with change. Make friends with the unknown. Try new things, especially things that are scary to you! Experiment! I encourage life-experimentation at any age, because one of the big secrets nobody tells you is that you’ll probably never feel grown up. There’s no point where you go, Finally! I’m an adult now, and my shit is totally together and I know exactly what I’m doing!

I realize this is probably kind of depressing to a person in their twenties, but it’s actually a good thing. It means we always have new places to go. It means the decisions we make right now, no matter our stage of life, don’t necessarily define the rest of our existence. Growing up is a process and not a destination. Don’t settle, and never stop learning new stuff.

Love, Your Beluga Best Friend

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