Q:Hi Lesley.
i read your post about problems with being 'bigger' and I gotta ask: Where do you live cause you ain't that big! C'mon, not possible
Anyway, I feel your sympathy when buying clothes on large chain stores. Usually, their size 12 actually fits in a size 6-8 person. It's quite absurd how society treasts 'fat' (God, I hat this word) people. We just happen to be a little wider on the side, still, humans. Weight does not define who you are.
I live in Boston, MA, and I really am that big! I’m a bit like an iceberg, in that pictures don’t really do my size justice—-you have to experience my awesomeness in person to appreciate it.